“Well, now he is well into transition to her, including name change and hormone treatments, and is fully out to family and work. I did know he was always quite fem and liked fem things and that was part of my attraction to him. “After we had been dating for six or seven months, he started to talk about how he really liked dressing as a girl and felt he should have been born a girl. However, 15 months ago I started a relationship with a guy who I had met several years earlier and who also was previously married with children. I was late in coming out after being married and having children. “I am a gay man and have no doubts really about that.
